This is one of those statement you live as a guy not wanting to hear really, especially from a female who interests you, similar to how there are words that make women’s vagina dry when you tell them to her like “I don’t have money” fuck such a stereotype.
Anyway you’re such a nice guy is probably equivalent to being a dick dropper; I mean if there is ever such a thing as a dick dropper, let’s be friends is definitely one, I’m sure.
The penis just coils up and shuts the door saying “well you’re on your own on this one bro”
I don’t blame it really, windows, curtains, and all the door, not only that your heart probably breaks a lottle, it’s like a little but a lot
I can’t tell you how much I am laughing as I write this l because I am thinking of so many time I’ve probably have come to hear that statement; I just re read this line, and I laughed even more
“You’re such a nice guy” everytime it is said I ask myself the question back, am I a nice guy? Why the fuck am I a nice guy, fucking hell; My brain has learned to automatically laugh every time I hear those words; sometimes I want to scream out “I am definitely not a nice guy, I’m just nice to you, cause I like you” but that sounds like a pick up line, which would contribute to me being a “nice” guy.
There’s that line ‘nice guys finish last’ I am definitely tired of finishing last, this is not me admitting I am a nice guy, this is me just saying it happens too many fucking times, that it’s frustrating.
I get it though, some women generally feel your “niceness” and want to keep it around them, that they fear if anything sexual or relationship related were to happen, she would loose it all, meaning you, and that’s okay.
Damn it, doesn’t make it anyless frustrating though. However as much as I hate you’re a nice guy; it has it’s benefits; One of them is you get to keep these awesome people around you. I’ve had a lot of women around me who I don’t fuck with, I can honestly say some of those relationships have been very fulfilling.
There’s a lot you can get from seeing a female other than a object of sexual desire. I mean of course there would be times I admit to myself that “damn girl, you are fine as hell”
I have been able to ask some of these girls close to me questions I’d probably never gotten to ask.
You’re a nice guy is a horrible statement, close to “let’s just be friends” as I mentioned
I don’t want to friends though, I want you! You’re single, I’m single, let’s be single together
Why do we have to be single apart though?!
Anyway, there are a lot of lines dropped on us as humans of sexual nature or social nature that puts us in our places whether we want to or not!
“You’re over-qualified” “You’re too young”
“You don’t have enough experience”
“blah blah blah”
What words have been used on you? Even if it’s the same words, how did you take it, like a champ or like a weasel?
I am here with my nice guy ears, waiting to hear your intellectual nonsense
One Reply to ““You’re such a nice guy””
😂😂😂 I think, “you’re a good person” had been used against me more than once and by the minute it is said “I lose all the interests like you said it’s like a dick dropper 😂… I don’t usually carry on with those relationships, I let them die like unwatered flowers, roses to mention the type coz they die forever… And best friendships/friendzones are those which happen naturally, I value those a lot… Even if I wanted to be something more but if the nature wants us to be friends it just happens.. Like man you know that natural vib3 when with someone you like, and you even tell them “iheee yaz ngangikfuna kanjan” and ya’ll laugh about it… There’s more to it though.. I don’t want my comment turning into another blog. But you get the idea 😂